Exactly what form that dress takes will have a lot to do with the exact location and theme of your wedding. In fact, some brides may not end up in dresses at all. If you are planning to skydive while taking your vows, for example, a dress might not be the best option. On the other hand, a beach or back yard wedding is perfectly suited to a casual gown.
Why an Informal Wedding?
The best answer to that question is: Why not? Large, formal weddings are expensive, and take a long time to plan and execute effectively (most people work on them for a year or more). A relaxed wedding takes the stress levels for your special day down several notches. Additionally casual weddings are a fantastic option for the "second time around" couple, for people who decide to get married spontaneously, and for smaller gatherings.
Informal Wedding Dress Benefits:
In thinking about your plus size wedding dress, you will be pleased to know that this dress need not be a one-occasion deal. Most full figured casual wedding dresses are made so they could be worn to other similar events without screaming "wedding dress." There are truly a lot of options from which to choose, including non-traditional colors and shorter lengths.
Additionally informal wedding dresses come "ready to wear" - meaning you will not have to wait 10 weeks for a bridal shop to get your order into the shop.
Where to Shop:
A bride on a budget will be very happy because she can find a full-sized casual wedding dress in stores OTHER than expensive bridal shops. Your favorite local department store is one place to check, but do not forget about consignment stores or antique shops. A few decades ago women were NOT all size two! Vintage pieces have a romantic, nostalgic appeal, and can offer you a distinctive look for your wedding day. There is also a fabulous selection available online.
You can shop online but be aware that so doing increases the chances that you may have to either exchange the dress or have it altered to fit since you cannot try it on in person. Note, however, that this type of inconvenience may be highly offset by a good price tag. Take your measurements before ordering a dress online. That will eliminate some potential mishaps.
Finishing Touches:
Once you have found a dress that accents your curves in all the right ways and is practical for your wedding day activities, the next step is rounding out your ensemble. Most casual brides do not wear veils, but flowers are another matter.
A daisy or snippet of baby's breath is visually appealing without being "over the top." Additionally consider some simple but classic jewelry - be it a bracelet, necklace or other rings besides your engagement ring.
Summary:
A plus size informal wedding dress should not prove too difficult to find at a price you can afford. What is most important is that you like the way you look and feel when wearing this dress (it is going to be a long day, even at a casual event). Give yourself a little time to shop around so that you find a style that is in keeping with your wedding, and a dress that you can wear again if you so choose.
By: Suzanne R Prochaska
